The Return of the Ex
11/15/2006
I hear the end of that title reverberating. Too bad blogs don’t have sound. I guess they can, but I’m not fond of them. You might even hear Darth Vader music in your head, but I’d rather save that for another ex.
Why is it that ex-boyfriends come out as soon as you’ve found a new one? Can they smell it? I’m still friends with an ex. We dated for a year and a half, but it has been more than 3 years since we broke up. He broke it off, not me. Every time I get interested in someone else, he calls. I swear he can sense it even though I haven’t talked to him in weeks. I’ve now gotten two phone calls within a week. I never get calls like that. He’s out of town for work too! He never called me when he was out of town for work when we dated. The whole thing makes me crazy. Yes, I’ve met a cool new guy. I don’t know where it’s going, which makes my mind think some crazy stuff because it likes to KNOW things. It’s also why I am having trouble coming up with topics for this blog—my mind is focused elsewhere. I still don’t get how it always happens that as soon as I find someone else this past guy comes into the picture. I don’t discuss my dating with him.
Anyone else out there had one of these? My mind would sure like to make sense of this one.
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Dirk_Star said,
November 15, 2006 @ 7:46 am
Yeah, we’ve all got one of those…
Sexism in society, when will it go away?
When Barbie is yanked from the shelves of stores, when churches stop teaching it from the pulpit and when the Republicans stop parading it as The natural order…
http://jestersrap.blogspot.com/
Tracey said,
November 15, 2006 @ 6:42 pm
Maybe guys have some sort of secret society which tells them when we find someone new, and so it’s time to get back in touch…weird stuff!
Ice Queen said,
November 15, 2006 @ 11:06 pm
Hi, oh that kind of experience, you have to ask ME! I always experience the return of ex-es when I am getting to know someone new. I know that sounds crazy but I believe sometimes the ex-es still have the same wavelength with us - OMG, sounds scary. But the thing is, don’t let the ex-es get you in anyway, maybe they are testing the waters, maybe they have hidden agendas but getting back together is surely not one of what they are thinking. Well, I would say go explore the new life, it’s more exciting and adventurous! Good luck!
Liz said,
November 16, 2006 @ 6:12 pm
I’m glad to hear that I”m not the only one. Yes, I think they have some kind of radar.