Ever thought about the way we adapt to our circumstances? I have become quite adapted to being single. Not that I was ever part of a couple for very long really. I was fairly self-sufficient all along, but it’s now an artform. I really don’t need a man around. Any simple thing that needs fixed, I can do. If I can’t, I can hire someone. Even then it’s mostly for things I don’t have the expertise to do: auto repair and electricity. I don’t mess with electricity anymore. One incident a long time ago scared me for life. I have the burnt pliers to prove it. They were still useable—if a bit tarnished and melted—so I kept them. Even with all the electricity off to the house, I won’t mess with it. Over the years I’ve acquired quite a few tools, including power tools, like a drill. They are very useful for hanging curtains and blinds. Originally I bought it so I could hang my speakers for the entertainment system I bought.

See, I have learned to buy my own electronics and cars. It’s amazing what you can do when there is no one else around to do it for you. You may wonder why I didn’t ask any male friends to help. They either didn’t help, refused to help or were too busy to help.

Now, while I think being so self-sufficient is a good thing, not all men (or women) agree. I think men prefer women who need help. They like to swoop in and help—particularly if it’s something that requires strength or knowledge.

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