Too Cynical?
09/23/2006
A while back, a guy wrote asking for my email to exchange photos. I’m thinking, “Yeah, you probably want naked photos.” Isn’t that what all men want? It has been my experience that is all men want from me. Who cares about education, degrees or intelligence? All they care about is that I’m “hot.” So I’ve become accustomed to these kinds of requests. I don’t oblige. You actually have to be privileged enough to get naked with me in person before you can get photos—and even then, asking is pushing it.
So imagine my surprise when this guy sends an email saying “as I write, it looks like this on my knees.” Then there’s the link. Do I dare click? What will I see? Guess what…he sent a photo of a kitten, sleeping on it’s back with its mouth open, on his lap. So, I’ve decided that I’ve become jaded. Although, I doubt my first thoughts about what a guy is thinking will ever change considering my experience.
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Serra said,
September 23, 2006 @ 3:02 pm
I have a little different problem–I keep getting men I don’t know messaging me on IM, wanting to “get to know me better.” Naturally I keep my IM settings as below-the-radar as I can get them.
I did find that being nice to them, even to nicely say, “Thanks, but I’m busy right now. Have a nice night.” just encourages them. Just another annoyance out here, I guess.
Liz said,
September 23, 2006 @ 3:25 pm
I keep my IM as “invisible” for just that reason. Most of them want pictures. I’ve read on other blogs where the women get men who want them to talk “dirty” to them.
Mr. Fabulous said,
September 23, 2006 @ 6:59 pm
If it not too much trouble, I would like some photos of you, shot from a half mile away, in the rain, with you wearing both a parka and a raincoat. Oh, and standing behind a tree.
It’s a very select fetish.
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Liz said,
September 23, 2006 @ 7:20 pm
Mr. Fab,
Remind me in December. It won’t rain until then. You’re nuts. Does Ms. Fab know about your fetish?